February 21, 2006

HEAR WHAT OPRAH HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

ok guys what do you think about it?
is it right statement about men?

February 20, 2006

email for ysf 200206

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sebuah keputusan sudah terucap
memutus segala cerita antara dua anak manusia
menyisakan kepedihan dan luka
saat berdiri di tengah ruang hati yang porak poranda
lalu sepasang sungai mengalir kembali
di sudut - sudut sepasang mata terbuka
mambasuh luka bagai air garam
pedih……………
sakit……………..
marah……………..
tapi tak ada benci

aku tak pernah membenci
aku tak ingin membenci
namun andai sebuah kebencian hadir saat ini
dan membuatku melupakan kepedihan hati
(hanya untuk kali ini)
akan kubiarkan hatiku membenci
mungkin membencimu
atau lebih mungkin membenci diriku sendiri
yang membangun rasa untukmu
dalam kebodohanku

AJARI KU RAHASIA MU

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kan kutempuh segala cara
tuk sembuhkan rasa kecewa
ku belajar tuk berhenti mencintaimu
dan membunuh rasa ini

reff: ajariku cara melupakanku
agar ku tetap kuat tanpa pelukanmu
agar senantiasa kudapat jalani hidup tanpa cintamu
ajari aku rahasiamu

dulu kukira katamu sungguh
kan kita pelihara rasa cinta hingga akhir masa
ku belajar tuk menjaga dan saling percaya
namun kini tak berarti

repeat reff

February 11, 2006

DAN DIA PUN PERGI

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seperti suara tanpa bayang
begitulah dia hadir
memberi warna dalam jejak jejak langkah yang tertinggal

seperti bentuk dalam nyata
begitulah dia singgah
memberi bayang nyata pada sepasang mata

seperti badai yang mengusir awan
begitulah dia pergi
usai memporak porandakan sebuah ruang di hati

dan seperti sisa badai di malam hari
begitulah dia meninggalkan sepasang jejak
jejak jejak pedih dalam malam tanpa bintang

(buat kamu: i wish u find your true soulmate and i’ll always pray she will better than me)